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The hosts share a series of personal anecdotes ranging from everyday frustrations to serious discussions about safety and justice. They recoun

Key takeaways

• Speaker 1 describes a frustrating encounter with a PostNord driver who refused to deliver a heavy package to her door.
• A nightclub security guard reportedly escorted Speaker 1 out of a venue due to a personal grudge related to an incident in June.

Main topics

• Delivery service frustrations
• Nightclub security and discrimination

Notable quotes

I was so fucking mad.

Conclusion

The episode provides a raw look at how personal grievances and systemi

Transcript preview

Speaker 2 (0:00) I'm so hot. How much can I push up? We're filming too. Speaker 1 (0:05) I know, I feel like... Is this too naked? No, that's a bit sexy. I'm also hot because I'm up in a circle. I'm all wrinkled. I'm so damn angry. Why am I so angry? No, I'm not angry at you. It would have been... Speaker 1 (0:49) Oh Speaker 2 (0:50) god! Speaker 2 (1:17) My little Monika Monark. I know. Speaker 1 (1:19) Monika 2, because the child gave birth to Monika too. Speaker 2 (1:23) Monika Monark Speaker 1 (1:24) has a snide back screen that takes the wheel. It's someone on a wagon. The thing is that you see crossed... backlight, or light. And red color on this seat that I usually lock my bike in. So it's someone with a red car. But god, someone who has been out there full of stuff. I don't know. I used the bike on Saturday, so I didn't think about it. And yesterday I didn't Speaker 2 (1:51) use it. Speaker 1 (1:52) So it's probably... It was a little sour. But really sour. Do you Speaker 2 (1:58) have Speaker 1 (1:58) to leave her? I think I have to. I bought it on a bike shop right where I live. So I think they'll have to check and do a little reconditioning. It's boring to have people ripping it, it's new and nice. Speaker 2 (2:09) Yeah, but it might be better for the stowage if it's ugly. Speaker 1 (2:13) Yeah, but I thought, because the previous one was ugly and disfigured, and then the insurance company said, you get like 1500 spen for it. And I Speaker 2 (2:21) can't Speaker 1 (2:22) get another one Speaker 2 (2:23) the Speaker 1 (2:23) same size for it. Then it's better to buy an expensive bike, if it gets stolen, then I get like a new one the same size, but like... with a little, what's it called, self-risk. So it's more like that. It's boring that you have to think like that. But anyway, that was the first thing. The second thing is, well, today, when this episode is finished, I'll be filling my child's 14. Betty. 14? Oh my Speaker 2 (2:52) god, how big. Speaker 1 (2:53) Exactly, so tanned, so happy. Speaker 2 (3:13) Yeah. Speaker 1 (3:14) Wow, a unicorn. It's crazy that she fits in it. I can see that. Some people do. It was incredible. And then she wanted a piano, a digital piano. And then it hit me, because we're very limited with space at home, but she has a keyboard in her room that she can't use. It's just a pile of junk. And then there's an old gamer screen on it that she doesn't use anymore. Because now she's playing on her iPad. Do you remember the desk in the girls' room? Speaker 2 (3:50) How Speaker 1 (3:50) flabbergasted it was. I feel so bad about that. And when he Speaker 2 (3:55) wrote with a pencil, I love Jonas, I love... And then he Speaker 1 (4:01) just... And in that, I open a box sometimes and I think, I can't find a pen, I'm going to check if Betty has a pen. Speaker 2 (4:08) It's Speaker 1 (4:09) just scrap. Old candy paper. Speaker 2 (4:11) Skräm! Men man orkar inte slänga en papperskår. Alltså jag tror, verkligen, du får gärna hold me to this. Jag tror verkligen att jag kommer vara en så bra tonårsförälder när det kommer till... That they can't handle things. Speaker 1 (4:26) I think that's true, too. I'm pretty chill. Do you let her sleep and stuff? Yes. And I don't look at her with those things. The mistakes my mom made, I try not to do them. Speaker 1 (4:43) But it can be a little like... You don't smoke Speaker 2 (4:44) at the door when it's 12 o'clock and she hasn't Speaker 1 (4:47) gone up. No, I wouldn't do that. No, but things like that that can bother me is that I can go in sometimes and pull up her dark-clad dress and be like, sorry. This is mental illness. You have to get a light in Speaker 2 (5:03) the room. Speaker 1 (5:03) A little like a Christmas star habit. Yes. Christmas star in February. There will also be a special smell in a room that hasn't got any daylight. That's right, Speaker 2 (5:12) absolutely. Speaker 1 (5:13) So that can do it. But at least then she has a wish to see that she will get a piano in Speaker 2 (5:17) the Speaker 1 (5:17) last year's present. And then I have met and then we can get it instead of that damn scrap collector keyboard. Order it, fill it in, take delivery with postman because they can deliver it to the door. And I think this package weighs 22 kilos. It's heavy and I have no hiss. And problems with my back. Like, big problems with my back. So I have to go and get care for it. He's calling from Postnord now. Just before I'm on my way here. And then he starts talking about that he doesn't know where he's going to stay. And asks if we have a place to stay. Speaker 2 (5:52) I'm Speaker 1 (5:53) like... Speaker 2 (5:53) Rarely do you hear that in apartments. Speaker 1 (5:55) No, I'm like, this is a normal housing. And then he starts talking about parking. And I'm like, but I don't really know how I... What am I supposed to... I mean, in the end I just understand that it's not possible to talk to this person. Because it's not my job to tell him what he should park. I don't know... What am I supposed to say about that? He came in a truck. I don't know if you park a truck or where you're Speaker 2 (6:18) supposed Speaker 1 (6:18) to stand. No. Speaker 2 (6:20) Have you checked further down at... Maria Prestgård is usually a hatch over there at the school. No, Speaker 1 (6:27) but that's not my specialty. No. Speaker 1 (6:57) He said, no, I refuse. You have ordered delivery to the door. This is the door. You haven't paid for me to carry this. I said, but what do you mean? You mean that a port is a door? Speaker 2 (7:10) But then they Speaker 1 (7:11) expect that everyone lives in villas. This was really crazy. Class hate. This was really crazy. You don't have any idea now. I have paid for delivery to the door. I have put in the port code. If you are going to deliver it to... My port? Why would I give you the port code? I don't want that to be figured out. No, really not. So fucking stupid. I got so fucking mad. He said, if you're nice, can I help you up with the package? No. I said, no. He said, I also have to take a picture of the package. I'm not Speaker 2 (7:48) going Speaker 1 (7:48) to put the branches back. You can take a picture of the package here, in front of the gate, because I'm going to lift the branches. Just take a picture. And then I think it's okay to leave. I'll light it myself. Thank you so much. I was so fucking mad. Also this thing, this man thing, if you're nice, can I help you? I got Speaker 2 (8:07) triggered, Speaker 1 (8:08) because that felt like a thing Speaker 2 (8:09) you got to hear when you were little. Speaker 1 (8:12) This is exactly what Jimmy Åkesson did to Magdalena Andersson in the election debate. When you come up with factual, reasonable criticism, you get questioned like a madman. Then you're a bitch. Speaker 1 (8:35) Yeah, he had it. Speaker 2 (8:51) You know what? The same thing happened to me last week. It was with another freight company. Then a guy called, and this wasn't any heavy stuff, but I had ordered delivery to the door. And now we know that, obviously, the door is port. I had no idea about that either. Delivery to the door, written in, ring the port phone, send the port code, blah, blah, blah. He calls, now he's down here. I'm like, aha, okay. Or it's just come up. He's like, no, no, no, it's delivery to the door. I'm like, yeah, exactly. And then Speaker 1 (9:19) I Speaker 2 (9:19) couldn't give up. I didn't know this was a thing. So I just come down. No, you know what happens then? Then he's going to go in my port with another thing. So we go together. I carry my thing. Speaker 1 (9:31) He carries my Speaker 2 (9:32) neighbor's thing. Oh no! We stand in the elevator together and go up. Speaker 1 (9:37) I had a feeling we were having a conversation or something. But couldn't Speaker 2 (9:40) he just have helped you? He helped you. Speaker 1 (9:42) I understand if it's their job and they have these directives, I can also understand that they're like that. Of course. Because it's clear that if it's Speaker 2 (9:52) a Speaker