#136: Attract Everything You Want In Life: Stop These Low-Vibe Behaviors (RERUN)

Ready For Love with Hilary Silver

In this rerun episode of 'Ready For Love,' Hilary Silver explores seven low-vibe behaviors that drain energy and block abundance, offering a

Key takeaways

• Complaining without taking action drains energy and prevents progress.
• Blaming and defensiveness hinder personal growth and accountability.

Main topics

• Prosperity codes
• Energy alignment

Notable quotes

High vibe women don't complain without taking action.

If you're not changing it or releasing it, stop rehearsing and reliving it.

Conclusion

By recognizing and releasing these seven low-vibe behaviors, individua

Transcript preview

Speaker 1 (0:00) The most successful people among us operate in very specific ways that set them up to win. They think a certain way and operate a certain way and it impacts their outcomes and even influences the universe to deliver on their desires. These are codes of conduct, deep identity level standards that are a certain way of thinking, being, and showing up that high vibe women live by. I call them prosperity codes and part of living in alignment with these prosperity codes is knowing at the core level what just doesn't work and what to let go of. So today I'm walking you through seven common behaviors that bring you down, patterns to release, and then the codes to replace them with so you can elevate your energy and unlock the next level of your life. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the Ready for Love podcast. Speaker 1 (0:56) Thanks for tuning into the conversation today. It would mean so much to me if you'd take a minute to just click that five-star rating on your podcast app, leave a review and subscribe so you never miss one of my episodes. And if you're enjoying this podcast, please consider sharing it with a friend because if you like it, they will probably like it too. Okay. So there are ways of being that are so seriously low vibe that it actually affects your energy and therefore your ability to receive. all the good things that you want in life. are actually working so hard to create. And while we all have moments where we aren't our best self because we're human, we don't want to stay low. So being aware of these seven low vibe behaviors can be a mental cue, a reminder that if or when you fall into it, you can just simply and quickly course correct, make a mental shift or a behavior change. So prosperity code number one, high vibe women don't complain without taking action. Things aren't always as we expect or want them to be, and it's okay to notice it. But just complaining doesn't do anything to resolve situations or circumstances. So it's really just a negative, low-energy activity. High-vibe women don't waste their energy on things out of their control. They either do something to resolve the situation when that's possible, rather than just complain about it. Or they focus on what they can control, which is themselves, how they react, and their attitude about the situation itself. So if you find yourself saying the same thing over and over about your job, your relationship, your body, your schedule, your stress levels, check in with yourself. Are you complaining, naming the problem over and over and just being stuck in it? Or are you creating? finding a solution or doing something about it, either physically and externally or internally, such as making peace with it and moving on. So here's the code switch. If you're not changing it or releasing it, stop rehearsing and reliving it. This next prosperity code builds on this focus on the solution. High vibe women don't engage in blame, excuses, or defensiveness. These are all behaviors that protect your ego in the short term, but they cost you your growth and your very being in the long run. Blaming always makes matters worse, whether it's who broke the thing or who messed up the thing or who started it, who was at fault, just doesn't fix the issue. So rather than cast blame and point the finger, the high vibe choice is to focus on the solution, fix the issue and move on. So you've heard me say this before, high vibe people deal with problems, they don't dwell on them. I always say to