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Pacha Satta - The RJ Balaji Show

RJ Balaji explores the psychological concept of self-sabotage through stories of a football player and a talented young professional. He dis

Key takeaways

• Nyanamani serves as a mental conditioning coach for RJ Balaji, focusing on clearing mental blocks.
• Football player Rajan P. Dev suffered a sudden bone fracture right before a major tournament despite recovering from previous injuries.

Main topics

• Fear of failure
• Self-sabotage

Notable quotes

Fear of failure is the biggest self-destructing weapon.

Conclusion

The episode serves as a powerful reminder to accept opportunities and

Transcript preview

Speaker 1 (0:00) From tomorrow, I am planning to go on a spiritual journey. From where I am going, starting from Tamil Nadu, to North Kodi, Dhanushkodi, and many other places, I am going to spiritual places like this in India, and I am going to cover my sins. Speaker 1 (0:20) I have come to the conclusion that I should start working with a positive mind and lead my life. Raja! Vanakkam! And welcome to Pacha Sattai with me, RJ Balajan. I am very excited. Because, dedicated temple trips, where do they take summer holidays in their homes? In this middle class house, no matter what holiday it is, we don't know about winter holidays. We don't know about the Aapali exam, quarterly exam, annual exam. For all these holidays, where do we go with our family? We go to Rameswaram, Tirupati, Tiruthani, or we go Speaker 2 (0:57) to Speaker 1 (0:57) Kumbakonam in Mylodudurai Speaker 2 (0:59) and Speaker 1 (0:59) see and see Speaker 2 (0:59) the Speaker 1 (0:59) temples. It's been many years since Speaker 2 (1:03) we did all these. Speaker 1 (1:04) Now, he Speaker 2 (1:04) is Speaker 1 (1:04) going Speaker 2 (1:05) on a journey searching for Speaker 1 (1:05) the bird. Tomorrow night, he will go and think, when will I feel satisfied and go home. I thought, Speaker 2 (1:13) only Speaker 1 (1:13) then I can come. Soul searching trip, not like that. I told Speaker 2 (1:19) him not Speaker 1 (1:19) to push these Speaker 2 (1:21) things. Speaker 1 (1:21) He said, brother! He will Speaker 2 (1:24) be ready for this Speaker 1 (1:24) journey. He will Speaker 2 (1:26) come in the movie to build his Speaker 1 (1:26) bag and go Speaker 2 (1:26) to Speaker 1 (1:26) the temple. So, I will go tomorrow. But if you see what is happening in my life today, I have a friend. Not a friend, but a scientist. I went to that scientist and I met a friend like this. His name is Nyanamani. Nyanamani is also a scientist. When I was talking about him, that friend said, Your friend, your Guru, said, what are you saying? I said, yes, that's how I feel. He said, I don't know why he said that, why he said that. But in the morning, as my Guruji, I accepted someone, and that was Gyanamani. He came as a trainer for me. That is, muscle building activities. At that time, I am judging him. Don't think that your muscles are not that good. Without knowing, he is fit, young and fit, like a young man, we do gym. So, as a Guruji, he came and started working as a mental conditioning coach. He started working in his life as a set-up coach. That is, for an athlete, no matter how physically fit they are, no matter how good their technique is, they cannot perform well. If there is a block, then he has to clear that block. He started doing the same work with me daily. We both work in sync. If something happens, I will go and tell him first. He will ground me and keep me. Okay? This is the advantage of a wise mental conditioning coach. Now, when I work out with him daily, we will talk about what is happening in my life and in his life. Recently, I was talking about this, about 4-5 months ago, a football player, we can call him Rajan P. Dev. Speaker 1 (2:57) Rajan P. Dev is the villain of Love Today. Don't say that it's Sathiraj. This is the villain of Love Today. I'm talking about the villain of Love Today. Rajan P. Dev. Okay, let's name him. Rajan P. Dev is a young football player with an injury. His performance is not good due to this injury. He was selected to play in a big league in September, October and November. Before playing in a big league, he tried everything like a doctor, library, and universal library and came to my friend. We asked him about him and he said that he will create athletes and asked him to do something. Speaker 1 (3:37) My friend also said, okay, I'll try. Almost 3-4 months before this process started, in about 3 months, whatever injury he had, that injury was completely ready. Completely ready, now he's a real pro. He's running this way, that way, he's hitting the goal. Yeah, yeah, superb! He came back as a player who cheered him up in life. If he's back to his old self, then it's like saying that. So, while I was going like this, a phone call came to my friend a few days ago. It was when we were working out and in our session. Speaker 1 (4:08) Rajan P. Deo named a big tournament and he was selected to play in that tournament. He was like, Super Fantastic Rock King! He was like, I couldn't walk 3 months back. I had a problem. Now, he is selected to play in the team. He was like, He said, let's watch it. I was the one who was searching for this. I was like, players, you are also hurt. This conversation ended. Speaker 1 (4:36) I had a doubt and curiosity. A boy who couldn't walk was selected in a team like this. It's a huge tournament. If he plays well, he can play for the Indian team. He can play for big teams. He took this as an assault. I had this thought for 3-4 days. The next day, when we were working, I felt something was wrong. I asked him, a huge thing has happened. You are not even worried. What is the big thing? Is it like this? I asked him. He said, no, it's not like that. No, he is selected but