Dating Coach Reveals What Most Men Refuse To Accept | DSH #2035

Digital Social Hour

In this controversial episode of Digital Social Hour, a self-proclaimed dating coach shares extreme views on gender dynamics, relationships, and international dating, promoting a transactional, hyper-masculine approach to romance while criticizing modern feminism, hookup culture, and Western societal norms. He advocates for the 'passport bro' lifestyle—traveling to countries like Brazil and the Ph

Key takeaways

• Most women are portrayed as emotionally manipulative and dishonest, often engaging in 'emotional cheating' through social media and male friendships.
• The speaker promotes a 'passport bro' lifestyle, advocating for international travel to Southeast Asia for short-term, transactional relationships to avoid long-term emotional investment.
• He claims that women in Western countries suppress femininity due to fear, while in countries like the Philippines and Brazil, traditional gender roles and Catholic influence preserve more 'authentic' femininity.

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And most of the time, you know, because I raise children, women are just children with breasts. They're not anything more than children with breasts. Now in order to keep a relationship going, the only way the woman is going to participate is if you bow down. Damn star symptom. That's the only way you're going to make it work. Almost all women are cheating in some form of fashion. Because that's their made and strategy. made me trash. Shrass. All right guys, C.G. back on the show, Free Agent Lifestyle. Also, Mr. Worldwide lately, man, you've been traveling. Internationally known. All right, I get everywhere, man. 30 countries down. Yeah. And I'm going to try to get 10 more in the next two years. I'm going to slow down a little bit. Okay. You're going to learn the world, and you're going to learn the world, and the women, and the women, and the culture. . the most out of it be sturdy? I would say Brazil number one has been probably the best experience overall not just the women but the women in general in terms of the quality and the way you can get along with them Brazil's number one and I would say Philippines would be number two Philippines Mm-hmm. Interesting. Yeah, Philippines had a lot of advantages to dating, advantages to getting to know people that just doesn't exist here in the United States. So it used to exist in the United States, it doesn't exist anymore. The 90s are dead, you know. But, you know, if people miss that element of dating and getting to know people, I think if they went to the Philippines, just having casual conversations with women, it's completely different than it is today. If people, I think if they went to the Philippines, just having casual conversations with women is completely different than it is today. Really? No feminism over there? I mean there's feminism, but there's only so much feminism you can have because there's no government, no government regulations. So if people were used to the government regulations in terms of child support, divorce, there's not much of that there. Neither is there a sense of a woman being independent, right? So we have an independent woman culture here in the United States where there's an idea that they believe they can get as much as they can being independent, but they're just getting the C quality life. They're not getting an A or B quality life being independent, which is fine to me. companionship. Got it. Got it. Got it need to cultivate them as early as possible. So you're getting more or less women in their prime, no matter what your age is. As opposed to here in the United States, there's a lot more feminism and a lot more taboo things about relationships that will make people think twice about relationships. So no government over there. So are people getting married out there in Brazil and you said Philippines? while so the thing is you're probably dating someone who has been married but they can't divorce but they're estranged from their interest yeah yeah is that a religious thing or what is that I don't know it's been their place for for history I know you know they're pretty Christian Catholic nation so they don't believe in the divorce yet but I do think it's coming around is in due time because people will take advantage of that they'll eventually have to do something about the divorce that makes sense did you did you watch the manosphere thing on Netflix I watch some clips of it okay you didn't watch the whole thing I didn't watch old then you want to suffer through that I mean how many more of these things that you can get but I can pretty much assume what how it went you know but based on the Any intelligent producer of a content piece like that would not come after someone probably as experienced as I am. Most of the people that they had were young. They didn't have much life experience. Much of their philosophies on the show were probably suited in probably. I guess what I'm saying is not to demean any of those people that have been on the show, but most of their experience wasn't life experience. They're using talking points to try to overcome whatever deficiencies. have in the dating and marital marketplace. Whereas me I have actual experience. I have experience with women, experience with dating, experience with the child support system, experience with the family court. And so I can speak specifically about an issue as opposed to generally. Not hypothetically. Not hypothetically. Yeah, that's different. Plus you're not really red pill. You're doing your own thing. Yeah, I'm doing my own thing. I'm in entertainment, but I have an understanding of that specific environment. So I don't, I don't have a problem with being considered lumped in adjacent to red pill, adjacent to the manosphere, adjacent to the manosphere, some manna' but I don't want to be considered some guy out here just putting out talking points to take advantage of men and build an audience on them to sell them only fans. That makes sense. The sentiment of the red pill manosphere seems to be at its worst right now also. You know I always say it's dead it's dead it's pretty much dead it's great for people getting into it. Like if you have no red pill knowledge if you will it's great to learn something to come into it after your experience a breakup a breakup a breakup or it's pretty much dead it's great for people getting into it like if you have no red peel knowledge if it will it's great to learn something to come into it after you experience a breakup or you're thinking about marriage it's good to come in from that entry point but it's been oversaturated the talking points are pretty much been overused at this point and most of the characters that have become mainstream that you're getting the information from and they've been massively discredited, well then who do you have left? For sure. Yeah, it's tough. What's the age demo of your audience? Is it a younger guys mainly? My demo is older. So yeah, my demo is between 35 and 44. That's my peak demo. And then 45 up to 54. And with a little bit of 20, you know, mid-20s in there. So my demo, Gen Z, we just reached all-time high for a percentage of virgin virgin. struggling so bad. I think there's two parts to it. Men, they believe in hope, right? They believe that women are approaching dating and relationships genuinely for the benefit of everyone. They think it's a fair game or it should be as fair as possible so they're trying to play the safe Rout and play it fair What they're finding out is that the women in their generation are not playing it fair all right? They're dimly They're typically Skewing towards men who are more established well put together They're also skewn towards men towards men who they have interest in which tends to be the same type of guys. All right, so there's an idea of an in-sale statistic of the 80-20 rule where 80% of the women are going for 20% of the men. But once you go outside, in the outside world, you can see it's not that significant, right? It's probably more like 70 30. But if you just take online, online dating apps, it's definitely 80-20. so that the people that you see outside are people who settle, people are kind of using that person to get to the next person as a stepping stone. And the men that fall below that, these men are getting no interest, all right? And the problem with them is they're creating a culture where they're trying to figure out how they can change that. How can we change that dynamic? Well, we can get red pill a content creator or we become an ensale, we can become a red pill rager, we can rage about it, we can possibly maybe let women know that we're aware of this guilt them into skewing the data back, but that's not going to happen. They're not going to get that. These men are going to be completely isolated from the dating marketplace for good because they're hoping, and I call it the hope strategy, they're hoping that it changes. What they tend to do is hope the government changes the law, or that we cancel apps like only fans and we minimize social media to the point where women won't have a choice but to go back to those guys and those guys gonna be highly disappointed. Damn, so when you were my age, this wasn't a struggle, right? Pre-social media, you were still getting around? Well, people can, people struggle. I mean, everybody struggles, but if you look at the data, I would say in the 80s and 90s, 70, 80% of people were married by 24, 25. Wow, that's crazy to right. That's crazy to me, right? That's going into the 80s and 90s, so men always have, always have... Men always tend to look at dating from a viewpoint of we don't have a lot of available women to pick from so I got a pick someone even in the point of having sex if a guy is even a good looking guy he's probably going to deal from scarcity. He's going to go out to an establishment, go to a place and do a spray and pray, going out there and talk to as many women as they can to get a result of one or two. for sure that's operating from scarcity what tends to happen is the women used to operate from a place of scarcity they were dealing with they're gonna be an old maid they have to have babies by 30 yeah they would lose their value by 25 they didn't have a great reach of men right like you couldn't get flown out in the 1970s and 80s they didn't have social media to continue to advertise themselves throughout the relationship or prior to the relationship they certainly didn't have the ability to earn significant amount of money to be able to support themselves independently so you had women operating in greater scarcity than the men so then you had the perfect storm of people merging together and getting relationships. Even a lower tier man can get a relationship easier in the past compared to today. We don't have that. Women don't have scarcity. Women believe they have unlimited amount of options. I don't care how ugly, fat, disgusting she is. She believes that she has an unlimited amount of options, even if there's sexual options that beats settling at 25. Right. You're not wrong. So the counter for that is passport bro, kind of lifestyle you think? you to become a passport bro. He needs some money right because passport bros aren't traveling for free especially if you're traveling at it you know you're trying to do five-star hotels you know business class you're not trying to sit in coach for a 19 hour flight to the Philippines you know what I'm eating at great lifestyle because I travel I travel in business class, first class, I'm in five star hotel resorts. I'm not traveling like bums, you know what I mean? So I'm eating at great restaurants, I'm not trying to eat off the street food carts. And I'm seeing the higher tier women in there which they don't come cheap in terms of dating them or . Even overseas they're pretty expensive. Well, comparatively. I mean, let's see, like, they're cheaper for us, as an American, the experience is cheaper just the regular date. women here want to experience. Those women want more than just any, you know, the regular. Is it more transactional over there? It's probably, well, all relationships are transactional. But it's directly transactional. Some men can navigate it and get around it, but they're fooling themselves. It's transactional. They depend on the relationship to be able to survive. Over here, it's transactional, but it's kind of, well, we're not gonna say it's transactional. it's transactional. it's transactional. extent and if it's not transactional financially it's transactional with your energy attention on time. So a woman will say, you know, she's like, look, I don't care about your money. I just want you to spend time with it. Is that transactional? Yeah, time is money. Time is money. So if she, if you're spending time, you're taking away time from what you can do to make more money. Right. What about paying attention? She wants attention. Text me, call me, face time me. That's paying attention. Is paying transactional? Paying is a way to transact something. So if he says pay attention, paying would indicate a transaction. So it's masked over here. I call it money, energy, attention, and time. It's money, energy, attention, or time, but you're going to pay. or you're going to pay one of them, but you're going to pay. Right. So for the guys that can't afford the passport-per-life stock, because that's probably millions of guys, where do you think that's going to have like AI girlfriends? Well, you know, I hope if it heads that way, I hope to never see any of these guys out. All right? I don't want to provide a consultation for them, I don't want to talk to talk to any of them, I don't want to talk to any of these guys I want them to kind of languish in whatever world they're in but I can see a time where those guys will head there because people head the only fans. It's big in Asia right now actually. Yes the AI girlfriend experience. You know if that's what they're going to do that's what they're going to do. But becoming a what you call a passport bro, requires a lot of money and it requires you to have to be away from work. You know you go to Asia, you go to Asia, you go to Asia, you go to Asia, you go to Asia, you go to Asia, you go to another, you go to another country, you go to another country, you go to, you go to, what you call call a passport bro requires a lot of money and it requires you to have to be away from work you know you go to Asia you go to another country you're not going to go for a weekend right you're flying 19 hours so you got to go for at least a week or two weeks and I would say three week when I'm going over there I'm going for four or five weeks so I'm gone all right and I'm going but I'm hopping from country to country I probably will hit six or seven countries and I'll do five days. they can't afford to do that and thus by the time they scrape enough enough money from their jiffy loop job to be able to experience that well by the time they get over there I will have conquered much of that and anybody else that can afford that and trust me there are a lot of men from a lot of countries not just the US that travel to those areas not to take advantage of the girls but to experience something that they miss, which is femininity. They miss femininity. Men miss femininity, and that's why they are the way they are. And Asia, Southeast Asia specifically, they can see a level of femininity that they can't see in Russia, they can't see in Germany, they can't see in London, they can't see it in Australia, they certainly can't see it in the United States. so they have to travel to those places to see it. . I feel like a lot a lot of a lot of a lot of a lot of guys a lot of guys, I feel like a lot of guys forget what it, right, right, right, right, right, right, right, right, right, right, right. An entity to me is a power, it's a superpower. Unfortunately, is told to women as something that they will make some vulnerable. It gets them taken advantage of, and I can understand it from their perspective because if you're told to be docile, nice, submissive, people are going to take advantage of you for sure. So, unfortunately, these women have been educated to show less femininity, or show femininity, transactionally or show femininity only to the one guy that they like, which is difficult. Yeah, so you think it's lost in the US pretty much? It's gone. It's gone. Unless you're in that top 20, 25, 30 percent of men, you can experience it, but it's going to be temporary. Like she'll come over and she'll be in her mood, she'll be in her luthio phase, or she'll be in