"Guddi Tu Kar Legi" - THE MESSAGE SHE WASN'T SUPPOSED TO HEAR | Prasiddhi Khare Mishra | Medium
Candid Confessions With Chhavi
In this episode of Candid Confessions With Chhavi, host Chhavi Mittal interviews psychic reader and medium Prasiddhi Khare Mishra about the spiritu
Key takeaways
- Prasiddh argues that attempting to 'get over' grief is a failing strategy; instead, one must learn to integrate the pain into their life journey.
- The concept of a 'soulmate' is redefined from a romantic partner to a group of souls who travel together through multiple lifetimes.
Main topics
- Coping with grief
- Life after death
Notable quotes
Don't try to get over this pain. Because you will fail.
Conclusion
The episode offers a spiritual framework for processing loss by viewin
Transcript preview
Speaker 1 (0:00) According to a Pew research, 70 % believe in life after death. 40 % say that the dead can communicate with the living. And about half of them say they have had some kind of communication with the loved one who has passed. Speaker 2 (0:12) My father used to watch me every time I would go on air. That day, he didn't call. I'm like, something's wrong. It feels like something's very wrong. He must not be alive. Otherwise, he would have called me. And then I start feeling my father's presence next to me in the studio. As if he was right there. looking at me. Next morning when we finally reached home, he was gone. Speaker 1 (0:32) Whether you believe in life after death or not, this is a conversation you cannot miss. Because loved ones pass, we deal with grief and we feel lost many times. But today, Prasiddhi Khare, a psychic reader and a medium, is going to tell us about how to deal with grief, what it truly means to the past soul and is communication across realms really possible? Stay tuned. Speaker 2 (0:55) You will do it, Guddi. You will do it. And I just say that. And she has tears in her eyes. She's like, what did you just say? I said, what did I just say? And then she just broke down. She said, I want to show you something. This is my father. We lost him a year back. And he always used Speaker 1 (1:11) to Speaker 2 (1:11) tell Speaker 1 (1:11) me Speaker 2 (1:11) when I used Speaker 1 (1:12) to get Speaker 2 (1:12) worried Speaker 1 (1:12) and cry, that Guddi, you will do it. And Speaker 2 (1:15) it was a goosebumps moment for me. Speaker 1 (1:16) How does one channelize that grief for your own growth? Don't try to get over this pain. Speaker 2 (1:22) Because you will fail. You will fail today. You will fail after a few months, after a few years, after 20 Speaker 1 (1:27) years, you will just fail. You have to learn to live with it. Speaker 2 (1:30) Before I conceived my baby, because I went into spiritual sadhana, in meditation, I see him and I see a two-year-old boy standing next to him. And he's like, I'm sending someone to you. And I'm not even pregnant at that time. You get messages from those who are going to come. You also Speaker 1 (1:43) get messages from Speaker 2 (1:43) those Speaker 1 (1:43) who are coming. Speaker 2 (1:44) So I saw my kid as a two-year-old boy. So I waited for two years for him to grow up. He was exactly the child that I saw. Every day lovers come to me and ask when my soulmate will come. Soulmate is not your lover. Soulmate is not your romantic partner. It's a group of souls. And we all help each other out in our journeys. Life after life, over and Speaker 1 (2:05) over Speaker 2 (2:05) again. Speaker 1 (2:06) There are a lot of people who question this because there are also a lot of frauds who claim that we will talk to them. Somebody says I want to talk to my dad and Speaker 2 (2:15) somebody wants to book a session and I say no, I can't call him. Like it's not a hotline to heaven. Dad, can you just go? I can't do that, okay? They have to join us. No, no, nobody can connect you to anybody that you're lost. What are the different ways in which people deal with grief in your experience? The worst losses that I have seen is when parents lose a child. That is against the natural order of things as I would say. It is technically not possible to lose our loved ones because the picture is still there my friend. And now, the role that they played in this installment is done. In the next installment, the story will come and read. So there's a lot of apology messages specifically in cases of suicide. I was responsible for my passing and I took a step and I hurt you guys. But trust me, I'm right here and I love you. Please don't carry the guilt that you Speaker 1 (3:02) did something and that's why I did this. Is there any kind of question that you don't want to answer? Yes, then they'll Speaker 2 (3:08) come and Speaker 1 (3:08) say that we also want to die. You Speaker 2 (3:10) tell them when we're joining them on the other side. So then I don't entertain that kind of question. You need therapy or reading? Speaker 1 (3:19) She's coming. Speaker 1 (3:24) God, your hair is looking really nice. Speaker 2 (3:27) Can I see myself? Speaker 1 (3:28) No. Why? Haven't you seen yourself? No, on the camera how I look. No. Are you? Speaker 1 (3:37) Hello, Chhavi. Welcome back to Candid Confessions with Chhavi. I had to be back. I'm so happy to have you back. And what is more interesting is that today we are going to talk about something completely different. Last time our conversation was very much related to cards. And this time what we are talking about, I think it's relevant to one and all because all of us have... experienced grief in some or the other way in life so my first question just to set the context also is Prasiddhi grief jo hai usse kis taha se log deal karte hain what are the different ways in which people deal with grief in your experience mostly it's a lot Speaker 2 (4:15) of questions and the first reaction is why now why with me as if it's happening only with them right it's happening with all of us but why now why me did I do something wrong was it because of me I have heard some really hard questions from my clients that so that is such a guilt-ridden heavy such a painful question to ask yourself and the universe and then to a reader like me As far as card readings go, I do that every day. Regularly. Usually, we look ahead in life. Speaker 1 (4:56) But Speaker 2 (4:57) sometimes, we have to look back. Speaker 1 (4:58) Okay. Speaker 2 (4:59) Because before going ahead, the things that are following us, that's what I was saying, the things that are following us, it's very important to solve them. Otherwise, you carry the baggage with you. The pain. And that pain, I always tell my clients, my friends, people I know, that don't try to get over this pain. Okay, so what should you do? Because you will fail. And you will always fail. You will fail today. You will fail after a few months, after a few years, after 20 years, you will just fail. So don't try to get over that pain. You have to learn to live with it. And we learn it. We have our own way. Because every human mind is different. Every brain is different. Every soul is different. Because the conversation is about the soul today. So one size fits all is not there. Anyway, life is not in anything. Speaker 2 (5:58) Some people fall very badly in pain, denial, addiction as well. I've seen that. Speaker 2 (6:24) Kaun gaya hai? Speaker 1 (6:25) Kitne close theh aur Speaker 2 (6:27) I think the worst losses that I have seen is when parents lose a child. That is like the against the natural order of things as I would say. Speaker 1 (6:38) Ki Speaker 2 (6:38) yeh ulti kahani hai. And here it is difficult to get out of it. It's not possible to get out of any pain. It's even more difficult to get out of it. And this story goes on for lifetimes. Because that grief affects story after story. Episode 1, episode 2. It goes on for as many lives as it can. Speaker 1 (7:01) Till Speaker 2 (7:01) the soul finally resolves that... Speaker 2 (7:06) you know, final ending, when we reach, okay, I've accepted this, that this happened. And then life gives you a chance to redo that relationship, maybe again, later in another life, because it's life after life after life, that these people who come with us in our life, jinko hum, yeh sawal, yeh sawal ko main pehle hi address karna chahun ki chhavi, ki everyday lovers mere paas ake bolte, mera soulmate kab aega. Like they have the best lover. Speaker 1 (7:37) And we Speaker 2 (7:38) need that in our life. But soulmate is not your lover. Soulmate is not your romantic partner. Soulmate is the soul of your group. It's a group of souls. And we all help each other out in our journeys. We are all part of the same storyline. And you play a role in my life and I play a role for you. Life after life. over and over again and i think that is where the healing will come from because this is the journey Speaker 1 (8:07) of soul Speaker 2 (8:07) group these souls are grouped together it could be 12 in your immediate circle your inner circle or your a little beyond that is like 24 to 30 souls so Speaker 1 (8:19) you're talking about when you talk about souls you're are you talking about the souls which are right now In this lifetime around Speaker 2 (8:24) me. In this lifetime they have been with me before. Maybe not now. Maybe not in this life. But Speaker 1 (8:29) to Speaker 2 (8:29) recognize Speaker 1 (8:30) these souls. These are the ones who are around me in this lifetime. Whether they were with me before or not. Or not. Is something that I probably don't know. They Speaker 2 (8:36) are the cast Speaker 1 (8:36) members of Speaker 2 (8:37) the story of my life. Right. And everyone has played different roles. And their roles always change. Depending on what lesson you want to learn. And depending on what lesson I want to pick up. Also, I want to ask Speaker 1 (8:50) you, the pain you're talking about, don't deal with it. What kind Speaker 2 (8:56) of pain do you not Speaker 1 (8:57) deal with? Speaker 2 (8:58) I'll tell you. I went on the journey of soul, and I went on the soul group, and I went on the soul mates. Because going on them creates Speaker 1 (9:05) the most dent on your mind, on your heart. Whether it's your father, or whoever. Whether it's your parent, whether it's your grandparent, whether a child, a best friend, a spouse, Speaker 2 (9:15) and it could be a... Anybody you have been close to. And you just Speaker 1 (9:19) have one soulmate or do you have multiple soulmates? Speaker 2 (9:21) Multiple. Speaker 1 (9:21) Multiple. Speaker 2 (9:22) That's what I'm saying. Herein lies the healing. When you ask me what is the path to come out of this, the path to come out of this is long-winded. It's a long road. And it's a river of fire and you have to drown. It's really a story of love. It's love. The souls who have come to give each other and in that love, even though they don't want to, they come in life because we have called them. Because we had said that I want you here with me because I am not doing life without you and I need you to do this for me. So even if they don't want to come, they come in your love. They do come. So healing lies in understanding the journey of the soul. Once you get this tapestry, how it spins, how it weaves, if you understand this, then you will know that you never lose anyone. You just cannot lose them. It is not possible. It is technically not possible to lose our loved ones because the picture is still left, my friend. And now this... In this installment, he played a role. In the next installment, the story will come and go. And it will keep on going. And from here, you learn to smile. You do feel that the loss that has happened, it's an indelible mark. It's left on my psyche. Now, it's impossible to erase it. Which is true. And it's not to erase it. And it's not to forget it. And I say, there's no need to heal. You carry that pain with you. Because that pain, that experience, you agreed with that. That you will come and take it on this earth. I will take the loss of you. And I agreed to it. And that was my lesson. That was my experience. So this is a Speaker 1 (10:57) very complicated story. So I want to ask you, how does one channelize that grief for your own growth or advancement or anything? It's easy to say that I'll carry the grief with me. But I've seen so many close friends of mine also who just cannot get over the loss even of a parent. And they are themselves getting old now. They've Speaker 2 (11:19) reached the age of 40, Speaker 1 (11:19) 50, 60. But they can't forget that grief. No, they can't forget. And they don't even try to forget. But tell me, if that grief is impacting you so much that you're remembering it in your daily life, you're crying. There are two questions here. One is, how do you channelize it? Because I understand, it's a parent. It's probably the only parent. And you're too attached to the parent. And now, you're living this life without them, right? Yes, you have. That's one thing. But the other thing, I want to ask from the perspective of the soul. When you get so attached to the soul, are you also hampering the soul from passing on by that kind of attachment? Now, that is another thing. That's what I'm saying. Speaker 2 (11:57) See, the more we have to accept, that what happened is already happened. We have to also know that what happened is not final. The story will go on and we will meet again. So, you know, till we meet again is the only way you will have any semblance of healing. Okay? And it's... I always say this, there is no such thing as death. So what are you trying to heal from? It is just that a character has left the scene to come back later in another scene, in another setting later on. But how do you channelize that grief? How do you channelize that grief? I don't know if you can channelize that grief into anything. Sometimes people try to do acts of service in this world to remove that feeling. If you lose somebody with cancer, then you go to help other cancer patients. Speaker 2 (12:51) If the child is lost, then you adopt other children or go out to help. Even if it's a pet that you lose, you adopt other pets and other animals and try to give them a good life. So every person will channelize their grief in a different way. Those are methods to deal with life and to do something meaningful with somebody's passing. But what I'm saying is the pain that you feel in your heart, the pain that is debilitating, You're crying in the morning and in the evening. I've seen people handle themselves over a period of time. It doesn't happen that every day you're missing them. Some days, some minutes, some moments can just suddenly strike you and you miss them and you're allowed to cry. You're allowed to grieve again and again and again and again. I say this to everyone. Don't try to get over this. They're here. They can see you. They can hear you. They are getting your messages. The worst part is that if you are constantly trying to heal and forget, you are denying the possibility of communicating with them. Speaker 1 (13:57) Let's come to communication. That's what I'm trying to say. Now, Speaker 2 (13:59) I Speaker 1 (13:59) want to ask you, there is a research that I studied. So according to a Pew research based in the US, 70 % believe in life after death. Speaker 2 (14:09) 40 Speaker 1 (14:09) % say that the dead can communicate with the living. And about half of them say they have had some kind of communication with a loved one who has passed. Yes. So now you tell me your opinion on this. And the second part of my question where what does the soul want? Does the soul want to pass to the other realm? Or does the soul exist in this realm? Or does the soul even want to be communicated when we go to a medium like yourself and say that I want to communicate with a loved one who's passed? Yeah. Speaker 2 (14:38) So it's a multi-layered question. And there's so many things that I have to wrap around this. Why I would want people to be able to communicate to their loved ones is because that is the only way you will heal. Okay. Okay. No amount of therapy, no amount of counseling will help. It never helps. It's kind of like a closure. Speaker 1 (14:59) Yeah, Speaker 2 (14:59) there's no closure. That's what I'm saying. First of all, there is no closure. There is no forgetting them. There is no way you won't remember them for the rest of your life. There is no way that unless you have a memory problem, you will remember and you will remember again and again. So that's what the first thing I tell everybody is and people who come to me to learn this also as well or to try to connect with somebody. There are two layers to this also, which